Rethinking Our Next Move……..

img_6981It is that time in our lives……we want to settle in a place where we can be happy while retaining our independence. It is important to accept that our lives have changed, along with our bodies, forcing us to adjust our lifestyle. We just do not call it retirement…..we are following a new path!!!

img_6983Our last experience preparing for a major hurricane in our ocean front apartment, has made us realize that in a major emergency, it would not be easy to stay safe. Evacuation plans, moving to a shelter, having others decide what is to be done, is definitely not our intention. We want to be in charge, while we still live in the place of our choice. In other words, we have to make our plans now.

In the last few months, we have considered a move. We have visited places and spend time exploring them. Our plan was to decide where we wanted to  settle. Have to report, we did not find anything we that took our breath away. I think this is because there is no such place, but I  could be wrong. Who knows, it might be that we were not looking in the right places or were overlooking something closer to home. In either case, we have changed out tactics.img_6984

About 15 minutes by car from our apartment, is Coconut Grove. A beautiful neighborhood settled in the late 1800s, just on Biscayne Bay. It has survived this long without too many extreme changes. It still has shady streets, parks, a waterfront that allows you to walk right by the water. The library is a historical building, the Women’s Club has a lovely building dating from early 1900s. Peacock Park is still used for games, theater presentations, yoga classes. The Barnacle and The Kampong Botanical Gardens are also in the area. They offer events throughout the year: from concerts to weddings. This neighborhood has a sense of community that no other part of Miami has. Small boutiques, quaint restaurants and farmers’ markets, a nationally recognized Art Festival are just cherries on this pie.

img_1663Now, you would say, what are you waiting for? This is where things get complicated. Despite the work of long-time residents, the long arm of the developers is getting a grip on this peaceful place. Sure enough, rents are higher, real estate prices have skyrocketed, new buildings are sprouting on the street facing the bay and a younger, more affluent crowd is moving in. If they were just looking for a more relaxed lifestyle, I would not worry….unfortunately, they are looking to change the very thing that attracted them to the Grove: it’s casual, laid-back atmosphere. They want it trendy……and that is not a good thing, a trend is just a passing fad.

IMG_1667.JPGI digress, this might not happen right away. In the meantime, the place has an undeniable attraction. You can walk everywhere, you can actually live there without venturing farther into Miami and be perfectly happy. At the same time,  the city is all around you. I would like that!!! So we are looking into it, or I am looking into it. Life, as I always remind myself, is short. We need to enjoy everything that comes our way and start doing it yesterday!!!

A friend once told me, that as we get older, we must look into a place we love and settle there. We can still travel, visit friends and family and enjoy the  what the world offers….but we would be there in our later years when we cannot travel or move around as we want. We will be in place we love and that would make all the difference. Of course, she has done this in her own special way. She traveled around and has settled in Tucson…….for now!!! Her inner gypsy is still restless.

img_6204Following this wise advise, I am exploring everything about this neighborhood. I want to know it well, know what it offers. Walk through streets and parks, attend events, visit art galleries and gardens and sample the wide variety of restaurants. It promises to be a wonderful adventure. I will keep you posted!!!

Matthew’s Brief Visit

img_6824It is a brand new day…Matthew came  and went leaving us not worse for wear. A couple of days of preparations and a day and a half of worrying about its visit was all we had to remember Matthew in Miami. The monster hurricane took its time wobbling its way to us leaving destruction and death in Haiti, the Dominican Republic, Jamaica and the Bahamas. Anxiously, most of us, couldn’t stop watching its every move and dreading its visit.

161004-hurricane-matthew-cr-0517_1090abcfc45fe31e5b9f0e73c31f9a90-nbcnews-ux-2880-1000Like an unwelcome guest, Matthew, made us cringe at the thought of its visit. Sort of like when we have to receive in our home some relative we rather never came. We know it’s inevitable, but you still wish they stay away. Unfortunately, with Mother Nature, we have no say in the matter. If it heading your way, you better prepare for the worst and hope for the best. That is what we did.

Of course, the constant updates only cause people to go overboard with their preparations. Seriously, there is so much you would need even if the emergency lasts more than a week. Rushing to the market and buying everything you think of, it’s not the way. Preparing without a plan, it’s like not preparing at all. On the other hand, the updates are needed to make everyone understand what to do…….or at least most of us.

img_6826Which brings me to that group of wise guys who think they know best and literally do not prepare or plan a party or go surfing or worse: take to the streets and put their well-being at risk. They are sure nothing is going to happen, the meteorologists have no clue what they are doing and the government only wants you to spend money. They do not realize that when it comes to Mother Nature, you can predict, but cannot ascertain anything for sure.

Going out to enjoy the hurricane is very stupid and very selfish. If anything happens, First Responders will have to go get them and risk their own lives for these irresponsible folks. So, no, it is not alright to just do as you please. Period!!!img_6815

Miami was spared this time. There was rain and winds and some downed trees. Some people lost power and some got water in their homes, but nothing major. This doesn’t mean that next time we should disregard the warnings of the meteorologists or the government. Each case must be evaluated on its own merits, each case should be taken seriously until the danger passes. Today, the sun is shinning on my little island, the sea is calm and the birds are singing. That in itself is a blessing!!!

img_6834I am so grateful for all our friends near and far who took the time to wish us well, who monitored the path of the storm and celebrated with us when the danger had passed. Thank you!!! Hopefully, Matthew will not cause more death and destruction before it fades into oblivion. Take care, everyone!!!

Matthew Comes Calling…..

img_6802After rampaging through the Caribbean for the last 10 days, Hurricane Matthew is on its way to Florida. Leaving destruction and death in its wake, the powerful storm has its sights on us. It is a sobering thought, a grim reality. Nothing to do, but prepare and pray.

Since we moved to Miami, more than a decade ago, we have experience several hurricanes. Of course there was little impact on the area and they continued to cause havoc in other parts of the country. Charlie, Jean, Hugo, Katrina, Wilma, Sandy…..all passed by, but left their marks in other places. We prepared for them, stayed inside, even saw coconuts flying by our windows and survived it all.

This time, it seems, we are in Matthew’s path and it’s a huge and powerful storm. Even if it stays offshore, the devastation it can cause is frightening. We are under Hurricane Watch, which means we can experience hurricane force winds, lots of rain and high ocean surge. Since we live on Brickell Key, a small man-made island at the mouth of the Miami River…..you can imagine how that will play.

Today, we are just getting our apartment ready: all furniture and plants  will be moved inside, we have enough food and water for 3 days for each of us, medications, flashlights, batteries, candles, matches. Our cars have gas, our phones and tables are kept charged….we are just waiting. Unnerving!!!

img_6805Outside, it is calm. This morning it was sunny and clear. Now, we have a few clouds, calm ocean and not a sound: birds have flown away, very smart little things!!! You would never believe anything that big and dangerous is approaching us. Still, it is coming. I just wish it would come and we can get this waiting over with.

We have nothing else to do, but wait, pay attention to the warnings from authorities and NOAA. Keep us all in your thoughts and prayers. May Matthew spare us the worst!!!